The world wants to classify people in two categories: leaders and followers. I grow weary with this distinction the older I get. Life is too complex, nuanced, and interrelated. I just don’t see how this dichotomy holds water. Everything is so fluid and dynamic.
I like the image of walking hand-in-hand. It starts from the point of mutual respect and dignity. Both are traveling their pathway together. There is shared values, aspirations, and feelings. There is tenderness, gentleness, and caring. with the bond of acceptance, tolerance, equality, and dignity. Walking hand-in-hand allows the two to think and feel together. It is a commitment of time and effort inviting free and civil conversation and dialog. Finally goals and achievement become secondary to living in the present, in the now.